Here are some tips for holiday planning to make a H A P P Y month ahead.
You maybe feeling overwhelmed or disorganized by the quantity of items on display in your house. Try putting the non-seasonal items away to reduce the number of items on display.
Think about decorating with fewer items but larger size items. This means there are fewer items to pack and unpack which will reduces the amount of time you need to prepare your home.
Take advantage of using linens to cover tables or end table and pillows to decorate couches. They may be less bulky to store and cover a larger area making your home seem completely decorated while taking less time to get the job done.
Use items that self destruct so you don’t need to pack them away, flowers, paper towels, tissue boxes all give your house a festival spirit but don’t need to be packed away and stored.
When you go through your decorations part with the ones you know longer need early in the month so thrift store have an opportunity to sell them and so they don’t need to store them until next year. Some stores don’t take holiday décor in January and then you will be stuck storing them for another year.
Acknowledge that you are feeling overwhelmed and stressed and when people offer to do things say yes. We all love to help people so let people feel good about themselves by allowing them to help you.
If people volunteer to bring food to a party accept gratefully. Allow people to help clean up dishes on their way out the door. In fact be ready for it. Have a place to put cutlery to soak. Have out a container for compost. Put glasses or coffee mugs directly into the dishwasher.
Planning is important
Use a to do list. Divide your to do list into to pick up, to e-mail, to call, to buy then you can plan your day and route to get things done and not be driving back and forth all over town. The trick here is to actually look at the list and use it not just make it.
Keep your plans from year to year, record your menu, grocery list quantities, time lines. Each year you can reuse, revise and update the plan
People and relationships are the reason for the season
Some people like to send cards in December. I keep my cards and addresses and stamps all together. When I am going somewhere where I will be waiting I pick up the supplies and take them along and write my cards. I have done it at hockey rinks, doctor’s offices, bus stations and on car trips. I usually leave replies to someone who has sent me a longer letter until January.
If you want to automate the card sending operation there is a company called send out cards.
Gift giving maybe an area where you are developing a system. Have you thought about Clutter free gift giving?
Consider the idea of a gift that self destructs. See my post on Clutter Free Gift Giving
Yes you can
Being organized is more about an attitude then how something looks. It is not about having the perfect home, party or gift it is doing the best you can with the time and resources that you have. The only way to get better at organizing is to practice. It is a skill that can be learned and with practice it becomes easier and easier.
Thanksgiving can be a stressful time for some people. Coordinating schedules, planning menus and preparing the house can make it a busy time.
Here are some tips to make the day for full of thanks giving you less stress
1. Let people help, ask them to bring some of the food. If you have someone who doesn’t like to cook ask them to arrive early and help greet people at the door.
2. Plan a menu
- record the amount of food you cook.
- record the cooking time for each dish
- reuse the menu, grocery list and cooking schedule next year
3. Plan to take a walk
- Between the main course and dessert have your guests go for a walk and enjoy the fresh air and build an appetite for dessert
- While your guests are out, you will have time to clear the leftovers and put them in the refrigerator
4. Be thankful
- let everyone say something they are thankful for, it is amazing how this can make a happy atmosphere at the dinner table
The computer swallowed Grandpa,
Yes, honestly it’s true!
· He pressed ‘control and ‘enter’
· And disappeared from view.
· It devoured him completely,
· The thought just makes me squirm.
· He must have caught a virus
· Or been eaten by a worm.
· I’ve searched through the recycle bin
· And files of every kind;
· I’ve even used the Internet,
· But nothing did I find.
· In desperation, I asked Mr. Google
· My searches to refine.
· The reply from him was negative,
· Not a thing was found ‘online.’
· So, if inside your ‘Inbox,’
·· My Grandpa you should see,
· Please ‘Copy, Scan’ and ‘Paste’ him,
· And send him back to me.
··· This is a tribute to all the Grandmas & Grandpas, Nannas & Pops, who have been fearless and learned to use the Computer………
· They are the greatest!!!
We do not stop playing because we grow old;
We grow old because we stop playing …
NEVER Be The First To Get Old!
In May many families are raising money to help find a cure for Cystic Fibrosis. This video show’s one families motivation and determination.
Listen to this great song by Abdominal and his Mom. Moms aren’t prefect but they give you something. After listening to this song thank your mom for what you received. http://music.cbc.ca/#/blogs/2012/5/Happy-Mothers-Day-from-Abdominal-and-his-mom
The pastor at The First Mennonite Church in Vineland, Dr. Carol Penner, decided to donate her kidney. Her decision started a chain of 4 donors and 4 recipients. She has written about her decision in her blog at http://thefirstmennonitechurch.wordpress.com/?s=kidney
Every organizer likes to be organized and help other people to be organized. Happy Valentine’s Day